i should have known better

Relationships are meant to EMPOWER you. They are meant to:
add value,
depth,
meaning,
comfort,
stimulation
and
HAPPINESS in your life.

Relationships are meant to EMPOWER you. They are meant to:
add value,
depth,
meaning,
comfort,
stimulation
and
HAPPINESS in your life.
CONTROL in relationships are
NOT POSITIVE words and lead to detrimental emotions and actions.

Strangely a lot of couples see jealousy as a positive,
“Oh that’s because he/she loves me so much”, emotion. It’s not!!!
It’s the person saying that they don’t trust you or believe that you can be independent, loyal and decent.
There is NOTHING ROMANTIC about JEALOUSY, so stop romanticising it.
It’s often said a thief thinks everyone is a thief.
So those that don’t trust are either people that shouldn’t be trusted
or
have been hurt by others cheating on them in the past. Such people require healing. The problem lies with them and there’s nothing more ridiculous than glorifying it.

Another commonly misconstrued phrase is, “If you love me you won’t do it”.
It is routinely used by people to emotionally blackmail people and threaten them into “obedience”
and arm twist them to do what makes only one partner feel temporarily happy or secure with complete disregard to the greater benefit to the other partner.

Relationships that stifle you personally and professionally are the relationships which do not respect you, your choices or your larger picture.
Of course, all relationships involve
compromise,
and that’s a healthy word because it means that both partners meet midway to resolve an issue that is causing pain or conflict.

But some situations need understanding, not compromise.
They require partners to rise above their pettiness’s and insecurities and want nothing but the best for the ones they love.
Love and relationships aren’t
PRISONS
and
the here is no place for jailors or wardens. It’s often said,
“live and let live”,
“love is blind”,
“love is selfless”.
But for me,
“love… and be LOVED…”

Loving a person is about wanting their greater good, not your own.

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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Author: FilipinaLife

i am a typical filipina wife who wants to share stories i kept through all these years(considered to be taboo) because you are a Filipina wife.

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